Relationship Compatibility Test

Take the free, 5 minute relationship compatibility test and find out your degree of affinity in several dimensions.

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Relationship Compatibility Theory in the Press

When love and science double date

There are different phases and moods of love. The early phase of love is quite different.
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Looking for a match made in heaven—or online?

Science says stay grounded.
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Love and the Brain

If love lasts, this rollercoaster of emotions, and, sometimes, angst, calms within one or two years.
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‘A sexual destiny mindset’

And the other red flags of romantic chemistry.
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The 5 Compatibility Dimensions

  • Connection and Communication

     Connection and Communication form the bedrock of any relationship. When there's a strong connection, individuals feel seen, heard, and understood by their partner. Effective communication ensures that both partners can express their feelings, desires, and concerns openly, fostering mutual respect and understanding.

  • Shared Goals and Direction

    Shared Goals and Direction are about aligning life's aspirations and visions. Relationships with a strong sense of shared direction often find it easier to navigate challenges, as both partners are working towards common objectives. This alignment ensures that individual dreams and ambitions are harmoniously intertwined, creating a shared roadmap for the future.

  • Trust and Emotional Safety

    Trust and Emotional Safety are paramount in a relationship. When trust is present, partners feel secure in sharing their deepest thoughts and vulnerabilities without fear of judgment. Emotional safety ensures that both individuals can be their authentic selves, knowing that the relationship is a safe haven from life's storms.

  • Quality Time and Intimacy

    Quality Time and Intimacy delve into the depth and quality of shared moments. Relationships that prioritize quality time often find deeper emotional and physical intimacy. It's about cherishing shared experiences, from deep conversations to shared hobbies, ensuring that both partners feel valued and connected.

  • Family and Friends

    Family and Friends play a pivotal role in shaping the dynamics of a relationship. Relationships that value and integrate both partners' social circles often find a richer tapestry of experiences and support. It's about understanding the importance of external relationships and finding a balance that enriches the bond between partners.

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